Some technical difficulties (me not knowing how to set up a dial-up!) but Andrew solved it this afternoon so now I’ll catch you up on our trip so far.
First, we are going to court Monday morning as planned. We do know our medical documents will not be accepted. One signature different than originally submitted (I knew it but hoped it would pass) and also too “messy” with stamps or something. So Alex today was making our appointments for meds here in IRK, like we had done before in ’07, and once those are done he’ll resubmit for another court date. This is NOTHING we weren’t prepared for so don’t fret over this.
Our visits with Nathan Genya have been very good. We went up to Cheremkhovo almost directly from the airport Friday morning IRK time. We had been flying for 24-hours at that point but were surprisingly not too tired. Andrew met us at the airport and has been with us both trips so far. When we got to the BH the Director visited with us in her office and a member from the Guardianship committee was there also. It was a VERY good visit. The director is in favor of International Adoption because “every child deserves a family” and will testify as to that in court. The Guardianship Committee will also testify in our favor. The director asked yesterday and another person (speech therapist? Psychologist? Social Worker? She’s one of those) asked today also for pictures and updates at times. They all are hoping the adoption is approved as Genya knows us as his parents and they feel it would harm him if it wasn’t as he’ll have a hard time bonding to anyone else. Apparently there was one Russian woman who came to visit him to possibly adopt but it wasn’t a good meeting as he somehow informed her (maybe said it, I don’t know) that he already has parents. But I digress – After our short discussion in the director’s office Genya was brought into the room. He looks very much the same as before but taller and missing two front bottom teeth! He’s sure skinny tho! He came right up to both of us and hugged and said hello Papa, hello Mama (in russian tho)and was happy to sit on my lap. Then he told us “my papa’s name is Brian and my Mama’s name is Debra” – and he had our Christmas Pix from last year in his pocket. They all said he looks at the pictures in the books we left and informs everyone he has parents. That is good but sure makes us pray more this all goes through!
So we’ve gone into a playroom both days so far – he loves the Fisher Price toy that he can turn on and off and it talks – he doesn’t follow the directions well tho LOL :) Loves the balloons the best. Also enjoyed the Dr Seuss book today. He repeats EVERYTHING you say – including if you say “say ready” he says “say ready”! He has a problem with the J sound so today JJ was “zay-zay”! And if he sees pictures of Brian and I with JJ he says, “papa, mama, genya!” He didn’t have any problems not recognizing me with my “new look” (so far Alex is the only one to say he didn't recognize me!) We were observed both visits by people who will testify for us in court and they’re all working hard to get this adoption approved. We can’t ask for more than that.
Tomorrow we will leave at 7am for the BH – and it’s only 2-hours tp Cheremkhovo, not the 4 I thought! Brian says it’s like driving to Appleton, but doing the whole trip on Oaklawn Road! Today we left at 7am, visited until about 12:30, got something to eat at a Russian bar/café (good food, not a lot of $$; 260r which is about $9.00), {we hadn’t eaten since on the plane yesterday morning so were getting hungry!} - Once in IRK we stopped at the grocery store which is like a mini Super Wal-Mart. Picked up some food for meals and snacking. Now I’ve cooked dinner of stuffed cabbage rolls (were pre-made, just have to heat), mashed potatoes (instant) and frozen corn… Some yogurt & little cookies for dessert too!
Watching some Happy Days dvds right now and probably will all evening. Haven’t ventured from the apartment at ALL yet! Long days away! Brian catching up on his lack of sleep over the past week by napping a lot – Last night we both slept very well so hope that trend continues – but if not we have DVDs!
The trip over was very uneventful – well at least after we made it to Ohare! We left Husty early to try and avoid traffic problems due to I-94 closing and the cold weather. We still got caught in a huge traffic jam but were able to catch the earlier bus because it was late! So arrived plenty early at the airport – did our check in and went through security. The laptop caused no problems but the DVD case did (the bag was handsearched). We left Chicago late due to deicing but made up time in the air. It was a very empty flight so we were able to spread out some. We dozed a little. Once in Brussels we again had to go through security and again the DVDs caused a hand search! That flight was fuller but we still were able to have a seat between us. Arrived in Moscow and were met by the guy who would help us get on the next flight – the same one who had met us in ’07 – and he still doesn’t speak much english! Our bags were overweight, which we knew, so Brian paid the overage charges while I waited. I had the bulk of the rubles so Brian put it on the credit card, which he said they preferred. Security at DME was uneventful – pulled out the DVDs to be scanned separately like the laptop tho. You walk through a big chamber when being checked and hold your hands up – then it does a 360o scan of you. We had lots of time to wait for our S7 flight so just found a seat and read. When Brian got up to walk around once a young lady, Victoria, came over to talk to me. She was just getting back home from 3-months in Australia visiting friends and just visited for awhile. Nice young lady. I asked her what she did for a job before she went on vacation and she had a manager position in a shooting store (?) – that lead to wages talk and she said she made $250 – I asked “a week”? She said “no, a month” – yikes! Finally, after about a 1-hour delay we finally boarded the jet and that was a full flight! We slept more on this flight but nothing real sound. The trip over was harder than I remembered it being but we’re settling in fine. The apartment is as we remember from 2004 but instead of a double bed in the 2nd bedroom there’s a twin bed. Otherwise not much has changed!
So now we’re ready to get comments from you! That’s what we read first when we dial up!
Stay tuned for tomorrow’s installment – it will be much shorter tho! LOL
PS – Mom, couldn’t install IM, was going to be almost 2-hours to download!
Saturday, January 17, 2009
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I am so happy that your trip is off to such a wonderful start! I know seeing and holding Genya again was pure joy for you! Praying the rest of your trip goes well and I'll definitely be praying for you in court on Monday!
Blessings,
Kristen
How wonderful to hear that he holds you in his heart as his parents - even after all these years. I have been checking both blogs frequently and will continue to do so as I do not want to miss one single chapter of this story!! Prayers continue on your behalf.
Carleen Kirchoff
I'm so glad to see you are there, safe and sound and settling in. It's exciting that Nathan is as ready as you are for this to all finally fall into place. We are all praying for you and look forward to following this whole experience with you. Take care, get some rest and enjoy being in your son's country and all the experiences that go with that. We're looking forward to your next update.
Dawn
Good to here the trip went well. It is so cool that Nathan relates to you as his parents! We have located Cheremkhovo on google earth. Could it be colder there than here in Wisconsin? You are in the northern reaches of Mongolia. Big mining area. A world away from Moscow. Good luck with hearings and meetings. ps: any hotrods or cool trucks?
YAY! Did Alex or Andrew get you the suitcase with the flat iron?
Love that Nathan came right to you...makes things SO MUCH easier!
On the IM, try Trillon (it is just another IM program) - seems to load a LOT faster than AOL or any of the others - but you can use any IM chat on this (i.e. AOL, Yahoo)http://www.download.com/Trillian/3000-2150_4-10047473.html
Can't wait to see pics!
Praying for you guys!
-Kathy and Marty
p.s. tell Brian I had to drive Marty's truck today - (now THAT was something to laugh at!) - yep, now I'm Ford Tough!
So happy you are finally online!
I bet you cried tears of joy when you found out that he is telling everyone he has parents! So sweet. We will be praying that everything goes smoothly with the med updates you have to have!!!
Good to hear that things are going well! We'll admit we were starting to wonder why you hadn't gotten anything posted yet! Two questions to cover in another post: 1) any idea when the second court date might be (days, weeks, ???); 2) you said he said hello in Russian. Was everything else in Russian, too? Have you gotten advice on communicating with a five-year-old who doesn't know any English?
Billy
Mom - when can I open the first gift? I hope to talk to Nathan soon. I miss you a lot! Love,JJ
Hey there Debbie and Brian, Great to hear about your first visits. We pray that they continue to go well. Brian, everyting seems to be quiet and warm over at the barn. Oh, yes, Debbie, can we open up our first gift when JJ opens his? Oh, wait, Betty tells me I wasn't supposed to mention the gifts thing on your blog, maybe not everybody got gifts. On a more serious note, it sounds like God has placed some huge blessings into your laps along with some chalanges. Keep the faith, lean on each other. "Be joyful always, Pray continually, Give thanks in all circumstances. For this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."
Pastor DavePries
I am so happy for you! It is so exciting that Nathan views you as his parents, is willing to tell everyone that, and loves you with all his heart. I am also thankful that the director and other workers were positive about the adoption. That can be quite a hurdle if they are not. I can totally remember the fatigue and lack of food. Stay healthy!
I can't wait to follow your journey to bring Nathan to his forever home. I will never forget playing with him and all the other kids from our agency while he was in Angarsk and the contagious giggle and smile he has.
Praying for you along the way!
Love always,
Jane and Ava
AWESOME Deb and Brian! with tears in my eyes, I loved the update! So heartwarming to know Nathan loves and knows you as his Mama and Papa! We keep praying for your safe return with that little man! Tons of love, Steve and Leanne and the boys
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