Well, it has turned out to be one for us. We were anticipating a call this morning telling us we'd go to get Nathan this afternoon. Even had figured it was Egor's day of work so maybe he'd go with us. Well when we still didn't hear anything by noon I broke down and called Alex. I really do not like calling him but we had to know what was happening. So first no answer but then he called back. I said "are we going to Cheremkhovo this afternoon to get Genya?" He says "well, no, the 10th day isn't until MONDAY"! (emphasis mine). Apparently weekends do NOT count. He said the decree will be ready Monday and once he has that in hand he'll call the orphanage director and we'll arrange to go get Nathan Genya. I think it was the shock of it all after thinking all week that today was "the day" but I lost it… I think I have composed myself enough by now to type about it! It was a rocky few hours for me! (and Brian too but I'm the one typing this!) LOL
After I could think things through a bit I had to step back and remember when we were adopting JJ – our court hearing to get placement of him was delayed for a week due to some paperwork that I don't even recall right now – but at the time it was the "end of the world"… But we got through that week and we'll get through this weekend. I said to Brian if only there was an English movie theater or something – heck, we'd even take a German one right now (we might be able to follow that a bit!). And it's so cold yet – when we woke up it was -30c and now is up to -24c at 2:30pm our time. That's cold… but we need to do something and can't just sit in the apartment and mope.
So tonight I'm making the chicken cutlets I've had for a few days and thought would be a good "welcome home" meal for Nathan – if we like them I'll just get them again for Monday! And for tomorrow night's Valentine's meal ??? I am making Brian HAMBURGERS! We found buns in the market, we have yellow cheese slices and pickles. I'll probably even fry up some onion to top it. If we can't have Culvers (restaurant) burgers for the day we'll just deal with it as we can. Maybe today we'll look for some mustard. Need SOMETHING to do since I was, as my mom said, "too efficient" as I have been so often over the past 4-years!
Alex also explained he'll then go over the timeframe with us for the rest of the paperwork. Maybe he heard something in my voice before that he doesn't usually hear (dismay maybe?) so he figures he should talk to us?!? We've been pretty "non commotion" so far and will continue to be (I hope) but I for one work better when I know what is happening and at least an idea of what to expect. I know things change, but at least I know what they'll change "from" if you get my drift??
Keep those prayers coming for a smooth transition for Nathan – even tho it's a few days out yet…
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I wish we were closer in proximity - I'd come and visit and mabye the company would be a distraction! If it weren't so cold (it was -36C today here, and windy!) I would even take the bus to Irkustk and walk to the apt, but Harry seems to not like it when its really cold & windy so... I'll have to check with Irina about which one we would take to get there though.
You're stronger than me - I'd be upset still! You and your family continues to be in my prayers.
I am so sorry to hear about your day! I pray that you will get through the weekend and find distractions to pass the time. Hey...go find a new cafe! :) Like you said, this seems like the end of the world but you will get through it. I pray that the transition goes smoothly and that each of you adjusts well.
Blessings,
Jane
Praying Monday comes quickly for you! Can't wait to hear about your weekend adventures. =)
Praying for you all.
I was so sad as I read this post. Obviously God did not think your book of events in this journey was long enough and needed a couple more chapters. I guess you'll have to take your own advice to JJ and know that each day (no matter HOW many days it takes) is one day closer to that glorious day.
Praying this is the very last set back you will experience in being able to wrap your arms around Nathan whenever you want.
Carleen
Brian and Debbie
Hang in there. Brazil was the same way with the business days. I know what your going thru on a daily basis playing the "waiting game" Its awful not knowing whats going on and sitting around day after day waiting for a phone to ring.
All I can say is to enjoy the time that you have with each other and enjoy venturing out and seeing the area that your staying in. Years from now you'll look back at this and really appreciate the time you had, especially when you get Nathan. To have 24/7 time with him will be precious. As it will be for him to have both parents 24/7.
We kept telling ourselves over and over while we we were walking the streets that we weren't going to let them win. We had come this far and we weren't going to have these things ruin what was suppose to be a wonderful time for us.
I know it's easier said than done, but your almost there. In a few days, you'll have Nathan with you.
Thinking of you.
Cathy Nehls
Sorry to hear about another delay. But, Monday will come soon and then Nathan will be with you forever! Praying for a smooth transition.
Blessings,
Carol
I don't know what more I can say to you, my friend - so I'll reiterate that it stinks (ok, it sucks - that is stronger than stink - haha!).
I SO UNDERSTAND what you must be feeling. I too need to know what to expect - if I have an idea of what is going on, I am fine...that is why we chose Irkutsk! Since we have several friends who adopted from there, I had seen the photos, heard the stories...
This too shall pass, and one day we'll be in Chicago at one of the museums with our kids laughing about all this...then we'll get depressed and shoe shop!
Since I pretty well expressed my feelings in last night's email, we won't go there again...LOL My best advice is to read the verses that you quote in your "About Me" - then read them again...and again...and believe it! Even though it is "only 2 more days", and compared with 4 years it is just a blink, I understand that it was HUGE for you both, and my heart breaks for you, but it will heal! ! ! I hope you can feel these ((HUGS)) a little bit across the miles - Dad and I are so very proud of you two and we love you bunches! XOXOXOXOXOXOXmom
This is different than the post I was expecting. What a sock-in-the-gut! Between this development, and the cold weather, it will be a long weekend. But if you haven't driven each other crazy by now, you'll do fine! Joking aside, enjoy your long weekend together. As other's have implied, these days will seem like seconds, years from now. We pray for your safety and success.
I was so sorry to read about the delay, but I commend you for your great attitude - as usual!
We'll be praying for all of you -- hang in there!
Mary Calizzi
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